Getting the perfect lady is a common desire among men in society, since the beginning of time! From the creation of Venus for the ancient Greeks to worship from afar, to the Axe commercial you see today; man has long tried to uncover the secret to landing the biggest fish of all: love. Can Axe’s deodorant really make the perfect woman drop at your feet? You know perfectly well that it takes a bit more to move the heart of a really good lady. You also know that a good woman has standards set for herself. With that being said, just who are you and what do you have to offer?
Shape Up
Sure, love is blind and can overcome all things but the lady needs some reason to give you the time of day to begin with. So let’s start off by looking at who you are and what you have to offer a lady. Most likely your apartment smells like a gym shoe and you get your freshest dirty shirt to wear to work in the morning. The three pizza boxes and forty beer cans from last weekend are still scattered around your living room.
To you, these things may seem small; they can, after all, be cleaned up in just a few minutes. But to a woman looking at you as a potential mate; they show irresponsibility and a lazy side. She doesn’t know that you will change just because you get into a relationship. After all, if you were able to keep a clean place and eat healthy food wouldn’t you already being doing it?
Working 9 to 5
One of the biggest things to attract a woman is getting a job. Living in mom and dad’s basement and earning enough cash for smokes and a beer is ok – if you like being single! Realistically the type of girl who dates this guy is bad news and you wouldn’t want a relationship with her. Women like security. Although times have changed and many women are successful in the work place; they still crave someone with drive and ambition. The truth is, even if she may never need your help, she still likes to feel secure. The prospect of a future with a jobless, lazy man is not appealing to any real lady.
Limit Self-Interest
So are sports or gaming a big part of your life? The good news is women don’t really mind men who like spending their time on their interest! However, when your love of sports or games becomes a 24 hour obsession; watching Sports TV throughout the evenings and spending weekends playing the game or watching a race: ladies get bored with it. What if she put on a dressmaking shows 24 hours a day and each weekend took you to her friend’s to cut clothes and sew? It’d be a nightmare!
Of course, you don’t have to stop being yourself. To the contrary: most women say that they like a manly man, but you need to be a man with a lady. Think of it as making up a team! This means making a few changes in order to fit a wonderful person into your life. You need to be able to give love and receive love and that starts with actions that make room for another person to be themselves when they are with you.
To sum this up and make it simple: ladies want a man who can show his love with his actions, as well as with romance. They want a man who has some plans and goals to strive for. A man who is clean, fit, and know how to take care of himself stands a better chance with a woman. After all, she doesn’t want to be your mother. When you take a partner it’s like taking a second half, you become one person in two bodies. You can’t be prince charming every day, but you can be that solid rock that she can cling to and love for the rest of her days.
Now that we’ve covered the internal factors, we will discuss about approaching to women. Continue here: Tips on How To Get Her Attracted To You.